I just discovered Adele. I am in love with her music and her style - she is beautiful. This particular song is one of my favourites. It makes my heart ache. It is so beautiful.
It is yet another cold and dreary Spring day in London, Ontario. I don’t know about you but I am sick and tired of this terrible weather. We have had just a few days of lovely sunshine this spring but for the most part it has been cold and wet. Boo! I want to be wearing sun dresses, sandals and sunglasses. Instead, this morning I had to put on long pants, a sweater and my leather jacket.
On a brighter note I ventured into second date territory with a new suitor this week. He is the friend of a friend. It was sort of a set-up situation (thank you Amanda!). We had coffee on Sunday evening then had a Bookstore Browsing date last night. I chose not to wear the first date yellow cardigan as mentioned in my previous post just in case it had some bad karma associated with it. This seems to have been a good strategy as things are going splendidly.
As far as what I decided to differently this time. I decided to break with traditional gender roles and asked him out rather than wait for him to ask me out. This is always a tricky situation in my opinion. Some men prefer to be the aggressor and instigator in relationships and it can be a turn off if a woman is too aggressive. But, the reality is that I am an extroverted person. I am not even the slightest bit shy and I am rarely embarrassed. Also, this is part of my personality, part of who I am, so I might as well show him the good stuff right out of the gate and he can make a decision then and there if I am too much to handle.
Much to my delight he said yes. I am realizing more and more how important it is to really be yourself in dating situations – in all aspects of your life. If I had played the shy and bashful roll (which is the exact opposite of my true personality) I may never have gone on the date in the first place, and that would have been a sad shame.
I know that while the way that I am can make me a difficult person at times, it also makes me the outgoing and social butterfly that I love to be. My extroverted personality traits are truly what I love the most about myself and I want my partner to love these things about me too. So, regardless of the long term outcome of this budding relationship I have learned just a little bit more about myself, and that is always a good thing.